Stilla, definitely do the fade if you plan on moving out of state anyway.
DA'ing, regardless of what we know to be the truth about "The Truth", still gives them power over you. That power comes from the fact that you ask them to not be one of Jehovah's Witnesses anymore. Regardless of the reasons presented for DA'ing, which would be skipped over anyway by any Elder, you're still putting yourself in a position of surrender because what it really says is "I can't be one of Jehovah's Witnesses". And that gives them the higher position in that in their eyes you've admitted that you're not "good enough" and not "spiritual enough" and when the announcement is made, the congregation believes that Jehovah's Organization has been cleansed.
Go for the fade. Fading is taking power away from the Elders and from the Organization. That's doing things on your own terms, not by what is dictated in the pages of the Watchtower.
I wish you all the best, and hope you don't "fade" from around here anytime soon.
Mike.